Week 7 Benevolence: Additional Resources

Hello sisters! As we end week 7 of our study, I would like to share a few additional resources for a deeper study. All these can be found on the True Woman 201 website at http://www.truewomanbooks.com.

The Counter-Cultural Woman: A Fresh Look at Proverbs 31. There are 27 programs in this series. I shared two with you a couple weeks ago, A Virtuous Woman and Modeling Humility. Last week I shared,  A Godly Woman’s Works and Working Joyfully. This week I would like to share two more. Click on the links below to listen to them.

Measured Words
The Heart of Compassion

Click here to read Filter Before You Speak by Kimberly Wagner.

Another series called The Power of Words has 8 programs in it and I want to share one called A Soft Answer.

Nancy Demoss Wolgemuth has a new book that was just released earlier this month, called Adorned. I just started reading the book myself and I hope to share bits of it with you during our study. Revive Our Hearts Radio has a series titled God’s Beautiful Design for Woman: Living Out Titus 2:1-5. Click on the titles below to hear Nancy share how we can live out Titus 2.

God’s Beautiful Design for Women Day 29
God’s Beautiful Design for Women Day 30
God’s Beautiful Design for Women Day 31
God’s Beautiful Design for Women Day 32
God’s Beautiful Design for Women Day 33

Please let us know how we can be praying for you throughout the study! Have a great weekend!

In His Love,
Melisa
One Heart Woman’s Ministry

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Week 7 Benevolence: Discussion Questions

Hello dear sisters! I hope you have been enjoying week 7of our study. I would like to share a few things the authors had to say in day 1. “Kindness can’t be isolated from the qualities of affection, sympathy, friendliness, patience, pleasantness, gentleness, tenderness, generosity, and especially goodness. In essence, to be kind is to have a good heart that is inclined toward doing good things for others. Jesus is the perfect expression of the Father’s kindness and His philanthropy (benevolence) toward undeserving sinners. The Great Kindness is a gift. We can’t pay for it. We can’t demand it. We can’t merit it by how good or nice we are, or by our own acts of kindness. No. God saves us because He is eternally and immeasurably kind, good, and merciful. he is the great Benefactor – the great Philanthropist. Our kindness bears witness to the kindness of our heavenly Father and the great redemptive work of Jesus. Most people would agree that showing kindness is a nice, decent thing to do. But for a believer, it’s the God-thing to do. ”

Here are some discussion questions. You can share your thoughts and comments here, write them down in your book during your quiet time or discuss them with another sister doing the study with you.

  1. Describe a time when an act of kindness powerfully ministered to you. What was it about the act of kindness that make it so meaningful?
  2. Complete the Kindness Report Card on page 166. Which attribute is the most challenging for you? Why?
  3. Scripture prioritizes the call to demonstrate kindness to family members first. Does that priority indicate a need for some reordering on your part?
  4. Why is it sometimes easier to be kind to strangers than to family members and close friends?

For a number of reasons, we will not be taping our Monday night sessions each week. If you have been enjoying them and would like to see us continue them please let us know. We will continue to pray and seek God’s guidance in the best ways to bring you a quality online Bible study. We thank you for being a part of our study and pray for you and your families!

In His Love,
Melisa
One Heart Women’s Ministry

True Woman 201: Week 7 Benevolence

Hello dear sisters, welcome to week 7, Benevolence. On page 159 the authors say, “For a believer, kindness is a fruit of the Spirit that is empowered, enabled, and directed by God. When our kindness extends beyond those who deserve or reciprocate our benevolence, when it reaches out to those whose shortcomings and failures we know full well, that is when we reflect the heart of Him who is “kind to the ungrateful and the evil (Luke 6:3). This week, we’ll talk about the type of heart and spirit that produces good works. All the work we do – whether in the home, the marketplace, or other ministry settings – should proceed from a kind heart – a good, benevolent, charitable heart. A kind-hearted Christian woman is a rare find in this self-centered world where there are far more takers than givers. Christian kindness, expressed in our attitudes and actions, our speech, on the Internet and in social media, in our relationships, and in our homes, churches, and communities, is a powerful means of displaying the amazing kindness of Christ in coming to this world to save sinners.”

Once you’ve completed the homework for this week click here to watch the True Woman Week 7: Benevolence.

Come back on Wednesday for our Discussion Questions. You can share your thoughts and comments with us here, jot them down in your book during your quiet time or discuss them with another sister doing the study with you. Please let us know how we can pray for you throughout the study. Have a great week!

In His Love,
Melisa
One Heart Women’s Ministry

Week 6 Responsibilities: Additional Resources

Hello sisters! As we end week 6 of our study, Nancy and Mary left us with a few thoughts:

  1. The Lord places great value on the work of the home and so should you.
  2. Satan will try to distract you from doing what’s most important by keeping you busy doing things of lesser importance. You can’t do everything. You need to be strategic about how you use your time and energy to invest in eternity.
  3. It’s important to understand the seasonal nature of a woman’s life. In the child-rearing season, home management requires significantly more time and energy, and you will do well to adjust your other work commitments accordingly.
  4. It is an incredible privilege and responsibility to steward the various gifts and relationships the Lord has entrusted to you. Remember that whether in the home, in the marketplace,e or anywhere else…your aim is to work for God.

I would like to share a few additional resources for a deeper study. All these can be found on the True Woman 201 website at http://www.truewomanbooks.com.

The Counter-Cultural Woman: A Fresh Look at Proverbs 31. There are 27 programs in this series. I shared two with you last week, A Virtuous Woman and Modeling Humility. This week I would like to highlight two more. Click on the titles below to listen to them.

A Godly Woman’s Works
Working Joyfully

Nancy Demoss Wolgemuth has a new book that was just released earlier this month, called Adorned. I just started reading the book myself and I hope to share bits of it with you during our study. Revive Our Hearts Radio has a series titled God’s Beautiful Design for Woman: Living Out Titus 2:1-5. Click on the titles below to hear Nancy share how we can live out Titus 2.

God’s Beautiful Design for Women Day 24
God’s Beautiful Design for Women Day 25
God’s Beautiful Design for Women Day 26
God’s Beautiful Design for Women Day 27
God’s Beautiful Design for Women Day 28

Please let us know how we can be praying for you throughout the study! Have a great weekend!

In His Love,
Melisa
One Heart Woman’s Ministry

Week 6 Responsibility: Discussion Questions

Hello dear sisters! I hope you have been enjoying week 6 of our study. “Our ideas about work impact our decisions about working in the marketplace versus the home. A proper theology of work – that is, an understanding of what the Bible teaches about it – is vital to help us make wise choices about what, why, where, when, and how to work.”

“God expects us to invest the resources He has entrusted to us – time, talents, and money – in things that will last. Jesus doesn’t condemn business success or economic prosperity. Jesus and Paul both benefited from the generosity of independently wealthy women (Luke 8:2-3, Acts 13:13-15). The Lord is simply challenging us to examine the motives of our hearts to see if we treasure Him and His kingdom above temporal things.”

Here are some discussion questions. You can share your thoughts and comments here, write them down in your book during your quiet time or discuss them with another sister doing the study with you.

  1. What are your spheres of responsibility in this season of your life?
  2. Take a look at day 2. Describe your opinions about work by indicating how strongly you agree or disagree with the statements on pages 140 & 141.
  3. What do you think it means to look well to the ways of your household?
  4. Do you struggle with idleness, busying yourself with time-wasting activities, or competing activities that keep you from “working at home” and “looking well to the way of your household”?
  5. Read though the 5 points throughout day 2 & 3, 1. Work was created to put the nature and character of God on display, 2. All legitimate work is an extension of God’s work, 3. Your work has eternal significance, 4.God wants you to be strategic in your allocation of time and energy, 5. Women who have been redeemed show it through “good works”, 6. Scripture promotes a gender-specific emphasis on work-responsibility.

For a number of reasons, we will not be taping our Monday night sessions each week. If you have been enjoying them and would like to see us continue them please let us know. We will continue to pray and seek God’s guidance in the best ways to bring you a quality online Bible study. We thank you for being a part of our study and pray for you and your families!

In His Love,
Melisa
One Heart Women’s Ministry

True Woman 201: Week 6 Responsibility

Hello dear sisters, welcome to week 6, Responsibility. This was a great week of study! I would like to quote a few things Nancy and Mary have said throughout the week. “The Bible affirms the principle that there’s a unique responsibility for the home that goes along with biblical womanhood and a unique responsibility for provision that goes along with biblical manhood. But the Bible simply doesn’t give us a one-size-fits-all template for how to apply that when it comes to women and work. We pray that studying the Bible’s teaching about work, productivity, womanhood, and the home will help you make wise decisions regarding your particular situation and lead you to extend grace toward women whose lives look different from yours. In our minds, the question isn’t “Should women work?” but rather “What is God’s view of work?” “How do I choose which work receives the most time and attention at this stage in my life?” “Am I giving my home the focus and priority God wants it to have?” And “am I determining the value of my work based on earthly or heavenly economics?” These are some questions we’ll try to address as we consider how to be women who faithfully steward God’s gifts by being fruitful, creative, industrious, productive workers..and who fulfill our responsibility to be “working at home.”

Once you’ve completed the homework for this week click here to watch the True Woman Week 6: Responsibility.

Come back on Wednesday for our Discussion Questions. You can share your thoughts and comments with us here, jot them down in your book during your quiet time or discuss them with another sister doing the study with you. Please let us know how we can pray for you throughout the study. Have a great week!

In His Love,
Melisa
One Heart Women’s Ministry

Week 5 Virtue: Additional Resources

Hello sisters! As we end week 5 of our study I would like to share a few additional resources for a deeper study. All these can be found on the True Woman 201 website at http://www.truewomanbooks.com.

The Counter-Cultural Woman: A Fresh Look at Proverbs 31. There are 27 programs in this series. I would like to highlight two of them. Click on the titles below to listen to them.
A Virtuous Woman
Modeling Humility

Click here to read Personal “Hedges” by Nance DeMoss Wolgemuth.

The Attractive Christian Woman is a 14 part series. Click here to listen to Self – Control.

Nancy Demoss Wolgemuth has a new book that was just released earlier this month, called Adorned. I just started reading the book myself and I hope to share bits of it with you during our study. Revive Our Hearts Radio has a series titled God’s Beautiful Design for Woman: Living Out Titus 2:1-5. Click on the titles below to hear Nancy share how we can live out Titus 2.

God’s Beautiful Design for Women Day 19
God’s Beautiful Design for Women Day 20
God’s Beautiful Design for Women Day 21
God’s Beautiful Design for Women Day 22
God’s Beautiful Design for Women Day 23

Please let us know how we can be praying for you throughout the study! Have a great weekend!

In His Love,
Melisa
One Heart Woman’s Ministry

Week 5 Virtue: Discussion Questions

Hello dear sisters! I hope you have been enjoying week 5 of our study. I enjoyed day 5, Like Pure Silver, the most this week I think. I loved the story about the woman who visited with a silversmith to learn more about the refining process. Malachi 3:3 “He will sit as a refiner and purifier of silver, and he will purify (them) and refine them like gold and silver, and they will bring offerings in righteousness to the LORD.”  The silversmith explained that in the process of refining silver, one needed to hold the silver in the middle of the fire where the flames were the hottest, so as to burn away all the impurities. The silversmith must not only sit holding the silver in the fire, but he had to keep his eyes on the silver the entire time it was in the fire. If the silver was left a moment too long in the flames it would be destroyed. The best part of this process, the silversmith knows the silver is fully refined when he can see his image reflected in the silver. Wow! I don’t know about you but I think that’s so beautiful!!!

“When you make every effort to cultivate virtue in your life, the great “Refiner and Purifier of silver” will reveal His beauty in you , and others will be drawn to love and worship Him!”

Here are some discussion questions. You can share your thoughts and comments here, write them down in your book during your quiet time or discuss them with another sister doing the study with you.

  1. On page 119 we were asked to personalize and pray Psalm 139:23-24. Ask the Lord to search and test our heart and thoughts and to point out any specific “spots” of impurity that are keeping us from enjoying full fellowship with Him. I encourage you to do that.
  2. Take a look at the questions on page 122 & 123 to see if the vice of slander needs to be uprooted from your heart.
  3. Why should being a partaker in Christ’s nature motivate us to “make every effort” to grow in virtue? How does being a partaker in His nature enable us to live a pure life?
  4. How will you “make every effort” this week to grow in virtue?

We have a group of women meeting on Monday evening to do this very same study. We had several sisters who were unable to make our meeting on Monday so we did not do a video taping for this week.

In His Love,
Melisa

True Woman 201: Week 5 Virtue

Hello and welcome to week 5, Virtue. I thought what Nancy and Mary had to say on day one was very important. “God wants His people to understand what holiness is all about. And He wants them to understand that sin – of every kind, in any form, to any degree – is an infinite affront to His holy character and that there can be no fellowship between a holy God and sinful people. But He also wants them to know that He is a merciful God who has made provision for unholy people to be purified and reconciled to Himself. When Jesus died to pay the penalty for our sins, He provided a “once for all” means of purification. Ceremonial washing is no longer needed. We don’t have to clean ourselves up in order to approach God. Jesus has justified us before a holy God – i.e., He has granted us positional purity. This is vital.  Before we move on the discuss how we can grow in personal, practical purity (sanctification), we want to make sure you understand that purity is not a prerequisite to gaining God’s favor. You don’t have to work at becoming “good enough.” The sacrifice of Jesus covers all your sin and makes you 1400% spotless and pure in God’s eyes.”

In day 2 Nancy and Mary talk about how purity starts in the heart. I think we’ve even heard that once before in some of our previous weeks…I’m sensing a theme. “A relationship with the Lord isn’t about following a list of dos and don’ts. It’s not about merely appearing to be good. It’s about opening up the depths of your heart to Him and cooperatively embarking on a lifelong cleanup project – becoming in practice what He has made you positionally.”

Once you’ve completed the homework for this week click here to watch the True Woman Week 5: Virtue.

Come back on Wednesday for our Discussion Questions. You can share your thoughts and comments with us here, jot them down in your book during your quiet time or discuss them with another sister doing the study with you. Please let us know how we can pray for you throughout the study. Have a great week!

In His Love,
Melisa
One Heart Women’s Ministry

Week 4 Discipline: Additional Resources

Hello sisters! As we end week 4 of our study I would like to share a few additional resources for a deeper study. All these can be found on the True Woman 201 website at http://www.truewomanbooks.com.

Don’t Be A Wimp: Kicking The Habits That Make Women Weak This program is a two part series by Mary Kassian. Click on the titles below to listen to them.
Every Thought Captive
Admitting We’re Weak

Click here to read The Unforgettable Beauty of a Titus 2 Life In Action by Carrie Gaul.

Click here to read Are You Sophron (Sound Thinking) by Nancy Demoss Wolgemuth.

Nancy Demoss Wolgemuth has a new book that was just released earlier this month, called Adorned. I just started reading the book myself and I hope to share bits of it with you during our study. Revive Our Hearts Radio has a series titled God’s Beautiful Design for Woman: Living Out Titus 2:1-5. Click on the titles below to hear Nancy share how we can live out Titus 2.

God’s Beautiful Design for Women Day 14
God’s Beautiful Design for Women Day 15
God’s Beautiful Design for Women Day 16
God’s Beautiful Design for Women Day 17
God’s Beautiful Design for Women Day 18

Please let us know how we can be praying for you throughout the study! Have a great weekend!

In His Love,
Melisa
One Heart Woman’s Ministry